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Let Your Monkey Do It – An Interview with Ina May Gaskin

This was the title of my article about Ina May Gaskin in The Irish Examiner today. The editor changed to Home Birth’s Best – so I’m claiming it here for my own! Here’s the opening paragraph… 

“Let’s say you want some advice that might help you give birth, wherever that might be. My shortest answer is: let your monkey do it.” So says the world’s most famous midwife, Ina May Gaskin. These words of wisdom which remind women that birth requires that we get our thinking brains out of the way and let our mammalian instincts take over, had a huge impact on me as I prepared for my first birth… at home. Like hundreds of thousands of women around the world her two best-selling books Spiritual Midwifery and Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth were my birth bibles.

Gaskin learnt to deliver babies by necessity in the back of buses in 1970, on an epic voyage across the United States with her husband Steven, a philosophy professor. They had set off from San Francisco in a convoy of 60 yellow school buses, picking up followers as they went, eventually buying land and creating an alternative community, The Farm, in Tennessee. She later trained formally as a midwife. In 2011 she was awarded the Right Livelihood Award (the “Alternative Nobel prize”) in Sweden, for her lifetime’s achievement.

I have an even bigger, better interview with her in the summer edition of JUNO magazine. But Ina May was so generous in time and spirit that I wanted to share some of the most controversial and shocking morsels that didn’t fit the two articles I wrote, but that need to be out in the world. As well as the answers to the questions that some of you suggested I ask her!

 

You spoke in your acceptance speech at The Right Livelihood Awards in 2011 about “a toxic brew” of “prudery, ignorance, profit motive and fear” 

Prudery keeps some of the best, most effective midwifery care from being seen on television, because the most woman-centered care does not require that a woman keep her body covered as she labors and gives birth.

At the same time, in this age of reality television, there is no such taboo keeping people from watching the abdominal and uterine incisions during a caesarean. When young women can’t see the bodily changes that permit birth over an intact perineum, they can’t even imagine that it could be possible, and many develop a pathological fear of their own bodies.

This same prudery, I might add, keeps some of the best Irish sheela-na-gigs stored in the basement of the Dublin’s National Museum. The Cavan sheela, for instance, is part of the Dublin collection, but the last time I checked, it was not on view. The Lavey sheela is another example. Replicas of the best sheela-na-gigs could be made and used as amulets or art to be displayed in birth rooms, whether in hospitals, birth centres or homes. I know from experience how much the open vulvas of the sheelas help women visualize what their own bodies can do in birth.

You are a passionate advocate of the need for hospitals to report the levels of maternal deaths in the US.  If figures are not reported, where do you get your statistics from?

As far as I know, the US is the only wealthy country that doesn’t use the same method in all its regions for reporting a maternal death.

Understand that here in the US, the 50 states are still not required to use the US Standard Death Certificate, so almost half do not, because changing would require effort and expense. Many maternal deaths are not reported as such, for a variety of reasons. An audit is not possible, since the CDC gets no names or reports of individual cases—just raw numbers from each state.

I get my information from the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) in Atlanta (our national agency that receives the count of maternal deaths that take place in each state every year).

In 1998, the CDC issued a short report stating that the number of maternal deaths occurring each year could be as high as three times the number officially reported.

Most states do not require that there be any review by anyone outside of a given hospital following a maternal death case. None of this, by the way, has been reported in our national media, although I’ve been doing my best for more than a decade to bring this problem to national attention [through her Safe Motherhood Quilt project.]

Concerned obstetricians in some states have made extra efforts to identify maternal deaths in a better way. California, New York, and Florida are examples. In each of those states, there has been a rather sharp increase in the number of maternal deaths over the last two decades. California Watch, an investigative journalism group, recently reported that California’s maternal death rate had tripled between 1996 and 2006. The New York Academy of Medicine reported that the maternal death rate for women of color in New York City had reached an incredible 79 per 100,000 (when the irreducible minimum of maternal deaths shouldn’t be higher than 2 or 3 per 100,000).

And from politics to spiritual insight… can you say a little about your spiritual beliefs about birth.

Every birth is sacred. I experienced the first birth that I ever had the privilege to observe as a powerful spiritual event—one that revealed a dimension that I hadn’t experienced previously. Every birth I attend has this dimension, no matter how many I attend, and I continue to find it amazing that there is no mention of spiritual energy in the textbooks that are written for midwives, physicians, and nurses.

And finally, many women have asked me to ask you if you have ever considered establishing more birthing centres based on the model of the Farm?

I seem to have enough projects without attempting to replicate anywhere else what we’ve accomplished here. I think it’s hard for people who live in countries where midwives have always been accepted as a necessary part of maternity care to imagine how difficult it is to bring back midwifery once a society has dispensed with it.

 

Celebrating V-Day

Today is V- Day.

Valentines Day. Perhaps you have been the recipient of hearts and flowers? Have you ever thought about why hearts and flowers?

What might you have that is pink or red with petals? What else is heart shaped – uh-huh!

“The shape we call a heart – whose symmetry resembles the vulva far more than the asymmetry of the organ that shares its name – is probably a residual female genital symbol. It was reduced from power to romance by centuries of male dominance.” Gloria Steinem, foreword to The Vagina Monologues

Yup. Valentines Day is a commercialised celebration of the vagina! Look again, at every shop and mall, festoned with beautiful, blossoming, life giving yonis!

This is a reason why today has been annointed V-Day – to mark a global movement to end violence against women and girls.

Started by Eve Ensler, author of The Vagina Monologues. Women around the world perform these moving monologues, celebrating all aspects of being a vagina owner, and donate their proceeds to the V-Day movement.

Our women’s group did a private reading of the monologues about a year ago – it is one of our treasured highlights – it pushed many members to face fears about reading aloud, of saying the word “vagina” aloud, of facing traumatic memories…. we wept together at points… but most of all we laughed a lot.

Have you read, seen, or performed the Monologues? It is my ambition to perform them next year for the 15th anniversary. For more on V-day check out http://www.vday.org . The Monologues are available in my A-store, along with lots of other inspiring women’s books.